Summertime

July was a month full of celebration. On July 2, No Hands But Ours published our article about the challenges of adoption. When writing about adoption, the most difficult part is getting across the big point that while the journey is hard, this child of God has immeasurable worth, making adoption worth every minute and dime spent. There are times we struggle with Elijah as he struggles with his own past and issues. But those moments are tiny in comparison to the joy he brings to our lives. On July 18, we celebrated six months of fun filled adventure with Elijah. If you've spent much time with him, you know there isn't a dull moment! This past weekend we celebrated Phillip's birthday with a family pool party and cheesecake. It is amazing how much more Ethan and Elijah enjoy the water each time they play in it. 

Today we took Elijah for his audiology and ENT appointments. He was so cooperative for the Audiologist, that she was able to perform several types of tests. Elijah's ear tubes are in place and functional. He was able to hear all tones within speaking range and at differing volumes. Yay! 

After Elijah's appointments, we stopped at the Dairi-O for hotdogs. As I looked across the table at him, I though about what a blessing Elijah truly is to us. He started singing softly in "Elijah talk" and reached across the table to hold my hand. I nearly lost it in the middle of the restaurant. As I held back tears, I thought about how far he has come in attachment and security, with still a ways to go. Many strangers have said "what a lucky boy!" but we know just how unlucky he was. Born with a medical/surgical need, to a family that couldn't afford healthcare, in a country that shuns anything less than perfect. Abandoned. An orphan waiting. We are the lucky ones, with health insurance, good paying jobs, the support of family and friends, and the perfect match made in Heaven. Elijah may have a brighter future in store for him now, but we are so lucky to watch this sweet and silly boy grow up.